With the help of a 4-in-1 painters tool and a hammer, I was able to get the upper oil pan separated from the engine. I removed the drivebelts, brackets, etc. from the front side and everything else around the pan. I am now able to get the rear main seal off, so that's at least a small victory.
Unfortunately, it looks like the brace (is that what it is?) that's around the steering bits will have to come off before I'll be able to lower that pan enough to get it out. Looking at the bolts involved, they all look really big and like they may be helping hold the engine in place.
I've read through the FSM about the oil pan dropping, but a lot of the steps seem to assume that they are being read by an actual mechanic
Do you know if I'm still on the right track? Do you know of a good write-up on how to get that bracing taken off safely?